So, you're child is turning 18!  Congratulations!  You all survived!  But be forewarned, your life is about to change.  How you ask?  Well, where yesterday you were able to request school records, talk to teachers about homework, discuss medical issues as well as their medical bills; today, the day they turn 18, you are persona non grata (so to speak).  Once your child turns 18 they are considered an adult and you are no longer permitted to request any documents on their behalf without their written permission.  You are not allowed to discuss their medical bills, their medical treatment, etc.

Be prepared.  Order copies of any and all of their records that you want to have on file six months before their 18th birthday.  Get the forms your child will need to sign that allow you to request school records and medical records.

It is a very strange feeling, especially if you have been the one to oversee all of these things in the past.  Your child will now be responsible (whether they are ready to be or not).  You may want to have them begin to make their own appointments, arrange for their own transportation, request their records during their 17th year if not before.  That way it won't be such a surprise on their 18th birthday.

So, celebrate with your "kid" and enjoy this new phase in both of your lives.

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